i heard most of you will be having your poly orientation tomorrow!!!!!!! the thought of it makes me sooooooooo excited. so, for the benefit of everyone and someone in particular *ehem ehem* , i would like to bring everyone's attention to today's topic which will be on..............
''HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU'VE NEVER SPOKEN TO BEFORE''
Steps 1. Ask the person if they need any help when you approach them so that you both can know each other a whole lot better. 2. A smile works wonders when you've never spoken to somebody before. You need to seem happy and approachable. 3. Introduce yourself. You want the other person to know your name, this will make you more memorable. You might want to shake their hand as you introduce yourself. It gives a good impression. 4. Compliments are always nice to receive. Compliment the person on their hair, their appearance, or anything else about their person. Do not resort to flattery, however, because this will make you seem fake. 5. Strike up a conversation! Comments such as, "wasn't that history test hard?" or "it looks like it might snow, doesn't it?" are great ice breakers. Or, you could ask for help. Something as simple as, "I don't understand this math problem, could you help me?" will do the trick. 6. Don't dominate the conversation. A good balance would be 60/40, with them doing 60% percent of the talking. 7. To keep a conversation going, ask questions about them, what they like to do, what their hobbies are, etc. Find things that you have in common. Don't rush into a conversation, or seem over-eager. Act polite, interested, and kind. 8. Laughter always helps to loosen people up. Share a funny joke, or a witty comment. Don't be discouraged if the person doesn't find it funny, it's not the end of the world. 9. Don't rush into the relationship. Speaking to someone once, and then declaring them your best friend is sure to drive them away. Take your time. True friendship is a process in itself. Tips 1. Be positive and cheerful, not gloomy and pessimistic. 2. Only attempt to be friends if you truly want to, not just because the person is popular or you feel sorry for them. The eventual pain is not worth it. 3. Try to say their names more often than people usual do when they address each other. Instead of just a "hi!", say, "hi Jason!" or "hey Emma, what're you doing?" 4. Don't be afraid of new experiences and then close yourself up by thinking of the consequences. 5. Give it a go! You never know when you truly need your friends and how much a boost of confidence they can give you! 6. Enjoy yourself, relax! Warnings 1. At all costs, avoid being fake. People can clearly tell when you are doing that, and it will only hurt your efforts. It's just not worth it. 2. Don't make too many gestures and noises or surprised/shocked comments such as a frown then a smile and another sudden frown, saying "wow!", "Oo!", "Oh!", "Oh my gosh!", "Aww", etc. 3. In a short period of time. This could make the other person think, "what?" We don't want that. 4. Don't look up and down or all over the other person's face. Look into their eyes, or perhaps their nose bridge. It makes you seem like your eyes are searching for something in them, this could make the other person feel extremely uncomfortable. 5. Know when to stop. If you're kidding around, look for the signals and messages that basically says, 'it's not funny anymore', or, 'lets change the subject.' Say something related to what you were kidding around on, but not exactly on topic.
friends, do bring out the courage in you to try these out. it might do you good!! have FUN in school!! toodles!
